The Essence of Destiny - Project Who You Are, Rather Than Reflect Who You Were

"Watch your thoughts, for they become words.insanity is doing the same thing over and over and
Choose your words, for they become actions.expecting a different result. That is a powerful thought
Understand your actions, for they become habits.if you really take time to think about it. So, if you want
Study your habits, for they will become your character.a different result, you change those things getting you
Develop your character, for it becomes your destiny."there, right? "Well, yes, but; I'm too old; Too young; Too
Read those words again, and again, as they are verypoor; Too well-known in this area; Too whatever..." No,
simple, very powerful, and very true. Think about theyou're just too full of excuses! You want that cycle to
ripple effect, how things are touched and shaped thatchange...
you may not even know about. Your thoughts will leadThen you need to change the path that you're on...
you to your destiny. You do not have achange your direction. Although it is not possible to
pre-determined destiny, except that destiny that youchange your circumstances overnight, it IS possible to
choose for yourself by your own thoughts. Your onlychange your direction overnight. And if you don't
pre-determined destiny is the one you choose forchange what you are doing today, all of your
yourself. Your future is just one decision away.tomorrows will look like yesterday.
Those things that determine your thoughts are mostOur inherent physical nature is that even if we are
times the things that catch you unaware, those littlewhat we think is "content", we still strive to do better.
everyday things that slowly seep in and shape yourAnd that's ok... in fact it's what we should do. If we are
opinions that you think are your own. These can beremaining complacent and just coasting, then we are
radio, television, discussions, political events, religiousnot growing. If we are not growing, then we are
teaching, or whatever surrounds you every day. Thinkregressing. There is no stopping the movement of our
about it this way, if you pour half a glass of milk, dolives. We either move forward or backward, and
you expect to taste orange juice when you take amaintaining is just a slow backward movement of who
drink? Do you expect to smell the sweet refreshingwe are. We better be out there trying to improve our
aroma of orange juice? Do you expect to see orangelives in every area if we want to please our Creator,
juice in the glass or on the table if you pour it out? Ofbut always keeping in mind that it is for Him, not
course not! If you put milk in, you get milk out, plain andourselves, that we work to be better, do better, have
simple. So why is it that we think we can fill our headsmore, do more, etc.
and hearts with garbage from music, television,For example, when Paul (in the Bible) said that he was
negative political discussions, hanging around the wrongcontent to have his "pillow a stone" as he traveled
people, or incorrect religious thoughts and get pure,from town to town in the Middle Eastern deserts, he
unaltered opinions and thoughts? How can we fillwasn't for one second saying that he hoped it stayed
ourselves with junk and not portray junk back out?that way, just that he was ok with that for now... that
Well, although some will disagree with me becausehe could deal with that because he was focused on
they think they are strong enough to battle thesethe positive in his life, not the negative.
constants, it is impossible to put garbage in and getPaul would certainly have liked to be more
anything of value out of a person, even you.comfortable, like all of us, but his mind and his heart and
Making the right decision for your future is indeed ahis energy was focused on something much better
difficult and concentrated task. For this reason aloneand much higher. He had a goal bigger than himself.
many, in fact, most people do not make the bestThe stone was better than nothing to lean on, so it
choices. Our society likes the easy and convenientwas ok with him for that time. But I bet if you would
things in life, and that includes easy thinking. We've allhave offered Paul a nice soft cushy pillow and some
heard it before that if you want to change some thingswarm blankets, he wouldn't have said "Oh, no thanks, I
in your life, then you have to change some things inkind of like my rock. Thanks anyway."
your life. This now cliché statement is referringThe point here is that we need to change where we
to this same idea, that if you want to change whereare now. You need to find a focus on something that
you will be tomorrow, change how you are thinkingis bigger than you, and that can only be something that
today, because those thoughts today will determinebetters the lives of more than just you. Focusing on a
your actions, your words, your character, and yourthing will only suffice for a short while, and the rewards
destiny for your future... and it all starts with your nextof attaining it last even shorter. It is only through
single decision.touching others and serving others that we become
You are nothing more than a reflection of yourgreat.
thoughts, and your thoughts are nothing more than aTo summarize, back to the short saying that started
combined reflection of your surroundings and pastthis chapter; your thoughts will determine your destiny.
experiences. To grow, you must overcome yourOnly you have the power to change your direction and
current reflection and become a projection of whatdetermine your path. Change is uncomfortable, yet
you want to become. When you project that imagecauses growth that becomes natural and
and choose to begin focusing on the goal of becomingsecond-nature. Find a goal bigger than yourself, worthy
that projected person, then you will overtake theof your time, something that serves the needs and
reflection, break the cycle, and become great. Whethergood of others, a goal that inspires you to great
the best janitor or the best physician, you will be aactions, making you the leader that you are within,
great person with value to add to every life that youeven if you don't realize it yet. Arise, be who you are,
come in contact with, whether directly or through thatnot who society tells you that you are. You are a
ripple effect we've discussed.leader, unaware, waiting to lead the march towards
We've heard it said many times, that the height ofgreatness.