Transition Help in Military Families

Like many children in families with one or both parentsMilitary Family Association, the Partnership for a Drug
serving in the Armed Forces, 16 year-old RobynFree America, and the National Association of School
Lutzkanin has moved quite frequently throughout herNurses.
lifetime.“The only way to solve a problem is to talk about
As much as she enjoys seeing new places, meetingit,” says Robyn.  “If you let it sit there in the
new people, and having new life experiences, sheback of your mind, it’s going to start festering in
admits that she doesn’t look forward to being theyour brain … you’ve just got to let it out.”  She
new kid in town and having to make new friends aftersaid that it’s ideal to have parents to talk to since
relocating.  “Moving is a really big stress, especiallythey are sharing the transition.  “Parents can talk
on teenagers,” she explains.  You see all of theseto you about anything.  You can trust them.”
kids when you go to a new school, and you don’tThe web site also has information for parents on how
know them.”to talk about substance abuse with their kids.  In fact,
To help military families cope with various changes anda Free Talk Kit for Parents of Military Families is
stresses they inevitably experience due to the naturecurrently available through the site.  Designed
of the job, a new web site has been created thatspecifically for parents of “tweens” and teens, it
offers, among other tools, a guide for parents on howincludes ideas on how to start the conversation about
to talk to their children during times of transition, suchdrugs and alcohol, scripts to assist you in finding the
as a move or the deployment of a loved one.right words to use, and tips for answering the tough
On September 30, 2009, Robyn stood before a crowdquestions.
at the U.S. Capital to announce that the web site, hasThere is also information on the web site about how
been successfully launched. Truly an invaluableto educate members of the civilian sector, such as
resource for military families, the site was a joint effortschool teachers, who may not be accustomed to
between three national associations - the Nationalhandling problems unique to military families.